Is it just me?
Growing up trying to satisfy everyone I made sure that I acted a certain way around who ever I was around. With my biological family I would try and be very out going and tough while on the other side I was playful and upbeat. Making it a personal goal not to make my biological family feel I was thinking I was better than them and just trying to fit in with my adoptive family.
Doing wrong was not ok with either family but wrong was expected or unfamiliar in my biological family. On the other hand doing the right thing was a must with my adoptive family.